You’ll notice I didn’t say write or text more often.
Our voices are as individual as our fingerprints, and yet technology puts a pixelated screen between you and me. We converse in Helvetica or Times-Roman instead of in person, face-to-face. Tonight, even as I sit typing this holiday countdown on my Mac, I’m wishing that technology weren’t so pervasive. I wish that instead of texting to make lunch dates or arrange carpools, that we actually spoke to each other. Often.
Not so long ago, a bundle of preteen girls in the backseat of my Yukon would be chattering like chipmunks. Now, it’s a silent row of bowed heads leaning over lit-up screens.
Conversations connect us, not wi-fi, cellphones, or the internet.
This Christmas, I’m wishing for less social media and more socializing. Less texts and more heartfelt, spoken words.
Here’s my list of six things I believe we should all say more often. I’ve added Kid President’s list of 20 things because we all know how much Mrs. Rombach digs Kid President. He’s one awesomely inspiring young kid with a voice I’ll never forget.
Six Things We Should All Say More Often
1. Can I help you with that?
2. You’re beautiful. You’re handsome.
3. What a brilliant idea!
4. Thanks so much.
5. I love you. You matter to me.
6. You’re doing a great job!
Only six more school days until the holidays begin!